Hi, I’m Kristen.

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Welcome! I’m the creator of The Shift UAE.

I’m a 30-something, Australian expat living in Abu Dhabi in the United Arab Emirates.

My husband is an airline pilot and together we have three kids – a 7 year old and 4 year old twins. (Excuse me while I go and search for my sanity…)

I have been an expat since 2001 and consider the UAE as my home (for now). As the UAE continues on its trajectory of rapid change, we’re presented with plenty of challenges and opportunities – mostly in the meeting and letting go of friends so quickly, but also in terms of managing our personal finances and keeping ourselves grounded in a very consumer-centric society.

We have established a wonderful life in Abu Dhabi and have a phenomenal community of friends-like-family who have made our life rich and full. We are also not-so-typical in that both my parents and my husband’s family live within driving distance from us. We are incredibly blessed.

I first moved to the UAE as a 19 year old university student to live with my parents and get an overseas experience. It seems the expat bug sunk its teeth in pretty deep. I met my husband in Dubai (a Papua New Guinean expat) and after we had completed our studies in Australia and done our time in the jungles of PNG, we headed back to the sandpit to establish our careers.

We didn’t have the typical lucrative expat experience as D.I.N.K.s (“Double Income No Kids”) from the outset as my husband was a hard working cadet on a very modest stipend for some time. But for a good 12 month period we had an exceptional joint income and no debt to speak of. We took advantage of the opportunities to travel, eat out, and be a little more frivolous with our spending than we had been able to afford at the beginning of our marriage.

After establishing a career in Communications and Strategy Development, I decided to stay at home with our then newborn son, sacrificing 50% of our joint income for the sake of a stable family life. Fast forward seven years, twins (!) and a move from Dubai to Abu Dhabi, and we are finding news ways to be more responsible with our money while still being able to be generous in sharing what we have with others.

I am passionate about my Christian faith, hospitality (not the fancy, catalogue-worthy type but the real, honest, meet-people-where-they’re-at type),  leading my children to grow into awesome people, responsible and sustainable living – and I also love a great bargain!

At The Shift UAE, I’m looking forward to sharing and discussing how we can live out this privilege of being in the UAE in such a way that we are changed for the better for having been given this opportunity.

UAE Staycation Ideas That Don’t Cost the Earth:

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Hot on the heels of our top staycation hacks for Spring Break (and any time of year, really), here is a list of 10 things to do in the UAE during your staycation that won’t cost the earth:

  1. Park Days: Umm Al Emarat Park, Abu Dhabi. This park has it all – playgrounds, walking/running tracks, playing fields, water features, and a mini zoo. The grounds are beautiful and in the early morning (gates open at 8am) or early evening, the weather is lovely. There are also some great eating options, including Salt burger joint and a new coffee spot at the end of the carpark called Snooze (which, ironically, only opens at 10am). The rules are fairly strict about bringing in your own food, which we find quite odd for what should be the prettiest picnic spot in the Abu Dhabi. The way around this is to pack your cooler box in the car and eat your picnic on the grassy areas outside the park gate and then head back in for more park time.
  2. On ya bike: Bike Share: There’s nothing better than feeling the wind in your hair and the breath in your lungs as you explore new parts of the city. We love biking along Abu Dhabi Corniche in the early evening or at Louvre Abu Dhabi in the early morning. If you don’t have your own bike, Cyacle bike share kiosks are located all over Abu Dhabi, while Dubai residents and visitors can look out for BYKY Stations around town. Simply insert your bank card into the kiosk, punch in your details and a bike will be released to you for an hour at a time. The bikes will cost you AED20 a day. You simply need to redock the bike every hour at any of the docking stations around town to keep your costs down and your account active, otherwise additional fees will apply.
  3. To Market, To Market: Ripe Markets at Umm Al Emarat Park, Abu Dhabi. Back at our favourite park, the Ripe crew have a great set up on a Saturday afternoon from 4pm during the cooler months of the year. Check out http://www.ripeme.com for details on their activities over the summer months.
  4. Indoor Play: Funworks, Yas Mall. Say what you will, summer days in the UAE will eventually call for a day (or 100) of indoor play at a mall. Last summer we took advantage of the 100 Days of Play at the huge Funworks soft play area at Yas Mall. Valid at all Funworks, Fun City and Fun Ville outlets, this was a life saver for us over the extended summer break. At a cost of AED100 per child for unlimited play for the whole summer, we popped over to Yas mall at least twice a week. We would arrive in our active wear at around 9am, have our own little warm up jogging up and down the mall until the play area opened at 10am, and then spend a good hour getting lost in the maze of Funworks. We’d bring our own snacks or stop for a coffee at Starbucks where the kids would enjoy a free babycino before we headed back home.
  5. Get Cultured: Louvre Abu Dhabi. If you haven’t already checked out this treasure of a museum, you’re missing out. Beautifully curated, the stunning collection highlights the common threads that bind humanity and show our commonality across history, geography, tradition, culture or belief. The architecture and design of the building is breathtaking and worth at least one visit over your staycation.  General admission is AED60 and children under 13 are free. There are also discounted tickets for students, teachers and UAE military. You might consider becoming a member if you intend to visit regularly.
  6. Hit the Beach while you can: Abu Dhabi and Dubai have some fabulous public beaches which are best to visit between October and April. If you’re in Abu Dhabi, try the Corniche Beach. If you’re in Dubai, Jumeirah beach is beautiful, as is Al Mamzar. Bring your own food and drinks in a cooler and make a day of it.
  7. Be iconic: The Dubai Fountain, Burj Khalifa and Dubai Aquarium. Not all trips to Dubai need to cost you an arm and a leg. If you want an iconic day out, visit the Dubai Mall and check out the mesmerising Dubai Fountain which dances under the shadow of the colossal Burj Khalifa. Pop inside to see the Dubai Aquarium which you can view for free from the main atrium. Otherwise, you can pay to go through the aquarium tunnel and head upstairs to visit the Underwater Zoo that resides at the top of the mall.
  8. Explore Heritage & Culture: The UAE has some remarkable heritage sites and destinations that are well worth the visit. In Abu Dhabi, check out Qasr Al Hosn to learn more about the ruling Al Nahyan family. The Al Ain Oasis is a beautiful, tranquil UNESCO World Heritage site which showcases the unique ecosystems of the UAE’s oases and waterways. In Dubai, you must check out the beautiful Al Bastakiya heritage district, complete with with museums, art galleries and cafes. During March, the whole site is transformed into the Sikka Art Fair.
  9. Kayaking: The Eastern Mangroves. Here you’ll have vantage point of some of the best views in Abu Dhabi while paddling through the serene outcrops of mangroves and clear salt water inlets. While the cost is up to AED160 per person, check out Noukhada for special offers including two for one tours using The Entertainer vouchers.
  10. Everyone’s a photographer: Each summer, we give our oldest child an old digital camera and have him take photos of whatever he sees while we are out and about. Periodically, we’ll go through and delete the 190 selfies and download the interesting and unique shots he has taken from his perspective. We then put together a small album for him to have as a keepsake from his vacation. As he gets older, he can get more involved in editing and captioning the images.

Do you have any more money-saving staycation ideas up your sleeve? Share them with us and tag us on social media #theshiftuae.

Will you be my “Kabayan”?

IMG_1355.JPGLiving in the UAE opens to door to the world. Over the years, we have collected the most extraordinary group of friends and family from all corners of the earth.

Being part of such a multinational community means being exposed to the best of what the world has to offer. From food, to parenting, to new words and phrases, we love being able to integrate these gems into our own family and community culture.

Perhaps one of my favourite cultural quirks is the “kabayan” culture of our friends from the Philippines.

“Kabayan” simply means “fellow countryman”. Walk around a UAE mall long enough with your Filipina friend and you’ll want a dirham for every time another Filipina calls her “Kabayan”.

There is comfort in knowing you’ve got other people “on your team” when you’re in a foreign country, and folks from the Philippines have this thing nailed.

A couple of weeks ago our Filpina friend went to the mall in search of a new sim card for her phone. She went off to one of the main telecoms branches to make the purchase, however when the sales clerk saw her and heard her request, he directed her to another phone kiosk that sold the same item for 50% of the price – all because she was his kabayan!

As a girl who’s always up for saving a few dirhams and gets major buyer’s remorse when I’ve found out I’ve been jipped, this made me think – “Where is my kabayan when I’m at the mall?!”

 Let’s be honest – no one likes to be ripped off and we all love a bargain.

I think it’s time we all did a better job of sharing our insider knowledge of where to get the best deals in Abu Dhabi and the UAE.

So here’s your platform, people!

If you have the inside scoop on a great bargain, send me the details or post it on Instagram and use the hashtag #theshiftuae

Off we go!

The Dawn of a New Era

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Hi! I’m Kristen. I’m a 30-something Australian, a pilot’s wife, a mother of three and an all round “get ‘er done-er”.

And I’ve been an expat for more than 15 years.

As a young professional making a great double income with my husband, we took advantage of the lifestyle the UAE offered – international travel, stays in luxury hotels, the occasional designer clothing splurge and lots of eating out.

Fast forward to 2018, one salary down and three children later, the living isn’t quite so frivolous. After a great career as a Strategy Manager, my weeks are now spent strategizing how to save a few extra dirhams on the grocery bill so that we can pay for piano lessons this month.

We simply can’t afford to go out for AED500/head lunches, pay top dirham for personal trainers or take our kids out to expensive play centres every week.

My husband is privileged to have his dream job and makes a great salary, however with the cost of living in the UAE increasing every year and unexpected surprises (like twins!), major car repairs and the introduction of VAT, it’s time to be honest and shine a spotlight on that elephant in the room – The golden era has passed.

The UAE and global economies have made shift and things just ‘aint what they used to be. And for many like myself, the proverbial penny has dropped and we need to decide whether to bury our heads in the sand or jump on board that camel train and go with it!

So I give to you – The Shift UAE: A realistic take on UAE life in the midst of change, and a one-stop-shop for helping people like you and me find our bearings as we navigate through the process of settling in and living life in the UAE. Together we’ll explore day-to-day options and ideas for living out the privilege of being in this wonderful country, both wisely and responsibly.

As seasoned expats and one of the rare families that has no foreseeable plans to return to our home country, we are used to seeing friends come and go on a frequent basis. And as a long-term “stayer”, I’ve inadvertently become the “Oracle for Setting Up Home in Abu Dhabi” among our community of friends. I love to give advice about what to do, where to go, and how to go about doing pretty much anything in the UAE.

When I look back and think of the many missed opportunities that I had to establish a better financial foundation for our family, I wish that someone had sat me down and guided us through some of the pitfalls of expat living and warned us of the financial and lifestyle traps that can blindside us along the way.

This is a journey for me too, as I continue to work out how to be a wiser manager our money, pursue a healthy balance of providing well for our children and discover a clear perspective of “needs versus greeds”.

Will you join me in this journey?